Don’t Let Fear Steal the Life You Could Have


I have heard it repeatedly, “How could you leave the safety of the United States for retirement?” My answer is usually, “how could we not?”

Living in another country is a save-your-retirement move that few people consider. Staying would have meant severe belt-tightening. After some research, we moved to Tronadora, Costa Rica and haven’t looked back. Since then we have moved to San Juan del Sur.

We had what some may call a unique situation with both of us suffering from chronic illnesses. Stacey had already stopped working due to disability and I was hanging onto my job by a thread. We knew we needed to do something.

After a lot of research, we realized we could easily afford living outside the US and never afford to live in the US. We spent a year getting ready to move, selling off all the useless things we had acquired. Rethinking what was truly important to us.

Although Costa Rica proved to be far too expensive for our budget, we found we can live very well here in Nicaragua and even put money into savings for travel and special treats.

One thing we did not do, that we tell everyone to do is that after researching as much as you can, go visit. If you travel the right way, a month in a third world country can cost less than just a couple of nights in a hotel.

The right way is to not stay in a hotel. Use Airbnb to book a stay. Most places overseas you can get a hefty discount for a one month stay. Even without a discount, most places will have significantly lower prices than a hotel in the US.

When we made our first visit to Nicaragua for 7 days, we chose to book a private room in a Nicaraguan house. Breakfast was provided and the advice and suggestions we received were invaluable in making our stay enjoyable. That family has become our best friends here in Nicaragua and we see them often.

Our room was $20 a night and included a huge Nicaraguan breakfast that we found delicious. That same Airbnb discounts 30% for a one month stay, it is not unheard of to find a 50% discount for a month.

A month will give you a better feeling about your intended new home country than a quick one-week visit. We have met a number of people who came here on vacation, went home and started packing and returned to live here.

We have a friend that lives here on a small social security check every month. There is a full kitchen available to him, but he chooses not to use it. Instead, he eats every meal out simply because it is so cheap. He rarely eats at restaurants along the beach, because they are the most expensive. He often chooses to go to small Nicaraguan eateries where a very filling dinner can be purchased of under $5 and breakfast usually breakfast is $2.50.

Keep in mind that San Juan del Sur is the most expensive place in Nicaragua. This town is a tourist destination, and the prices reflect that. There are much less expensive places all over the country.

Moving abroad may be the ultimate in using your brain in new ways. We’ve always been resourceful but when you put those skills to the test it’s amazing what you can achieve.

The most surprising thing about our move was how quickly we found ourselves thriving once we decided to fit in. We embraced the change and feel like it was a great decision.

How Little Do I Need to Retire

Costa Rican ColonesThe question most everyone asks is “How much do I need to retire as an Expat?”. However I contend that you should ask yourself “How little do I need to retire as an Expat?”. The change in perspective makes a great difference in how you will approach the situation. Some people will not even get the difference in this perspective.

In the american society we are always pushed for more, more, more. The common refrain from retirement “experts” and friends and family that think they know the facts is that we must have a couple of million dollars saved up to retire. You will keep hearing how if you do not have 3 million saved up you will never be able to pay all your retirement needs.

Using these numbers most all people would never be able to retire. As soon as you get that magic number saved up that they said you are going to need, the number will go up again. Using the conventional wisdom, many people have determined that they will need to work to 70 years old or beyond.

However what are your retirement needs? I would bet that if I asked most people what their retirement needs are, I would get a list with things on it like BMW M5, going out to dinner most nights and a 4,000 square foot house. None of those are needs, they are all wants.

Think about all the celebrities that are dead broke, despite making millions of dollars each year. Is this because they suddenly had a bunch of new needs that drained their money, or more likely their list of wants grew as fast as their income? Have you ever gotten a raise or promotion and thought how the extra money will be great, only to find in 6 months you are back to having nothing extra at the end of the month?

Now consider that their are people living on incomes as little as $10,000 a year up to $1 Million a year and more. The average US income is about $50,000 a year. This means that early retirement is just a matter of determining where on the income line you wish to be, what your real needs are and finding a way to meet them.

This is where many Expat destinations come in with the reduced cost of living. However, keep in mind that all the numbers you see thrown around on the Expat sites do not apply to you. For North Americans moving to another country the cost of living is going to vary from person to person based on their own needs and wants, just where you move to in any given country, how you shop, etc.

I have seen people that complain about the cost of food being 2 to 3 times more in Panama or Costa Rica. The followup questions usually reveal that they will only purchase import food stuff and go out to only the Upscale Gringo restaurants.

At the same time you can find plenty of people that are able to save considerable amounts of money on food because they eat like the locals do and avoid import items. In most Central American Countries the average wage is $8,000 to $10,000 a year for the locals. I am betting none of them go buy the food items imported from north america at Auto Mercado.

If you are expecting to move to Central America and live exactly like you have in the US, only at ¼ the cost, forget it. This is not America Lite.

Most of us have never really engaged in the exercise of creating a list of needs and wants. There are those of us, who choose to live on much less in return for the time that would otherwise be spent on accumulating money to pay for those wants. We spend our life-energy doing things that are more meaningful to us personally than spending money. We want more time and we are willing to spend less in order to work less. Consequently, we need less in retirement savings, actually quite a bit less. And thus we can accumulate it faster.

How To Save Big Money by House Sitting

Savings AccountEverything that you have been lead to believe about saving money to retire and live well is a myth. The old paradigm is dead and gone. Retirement advisors tell you to buy the biggest house you can buy, invest everything you can, set a budget to live on the least possible expenses. All this so that when you are old and burnt up from working yourself to death, you can sit in a rocking chair and relax.

True wealth is no longer the dream of a couple of million in the bank. True wealth comes from the experiences you enjoy through your life.

We are living a life of being without a home, traveling the world and staying in very nice houses that belong to others.

Right now we are living in a 2 bedroom house on a lake in Costa Rica. There is no way possible we could have afforded to live in a house like this with a similar location in the US. In Bellevue Washington a 2 Bedroom lakeview condo would run at least $3,000 a month. Our current accommodations cost us nothing but some of our time.

We take loving care of the pets and watch over the property when the homeowners are away. Since both of us have always been animal people, it is not work at all, but rather a very enjoyable way to live. We are full time house sitters.

Today we ran across an article at Business Insider that shows how one couple saves over $100K a year by house sitting. Although this is not direct income, it shows there is a fantastic alternative to the treadmill of living life in the US.

http://www.businessinsider.com/how-we-save-over-100000-a-year-house-sitting-around-the-world-2016-1

How To Cut Your Spending So You Can Retire Early

Cutting your spending is one reason to move oversees for retirement. However you want to cut your spending ahead of time to maximize the amount of money you can take with you when you walk out the door on your new adventure.

This article and video from Money has some very good hints on how to cut your spending as painlessly as possible. Much of what we did ahead of time follows this exact pattern. In our case we started with ditching satellite TV. Even though we thought we would miss it greatly, it turned out we enjoyed the alternatives.

How to Cut Your Spending So You Can Retire Early